How to Recalibrate Without Burning It All Down For as long as I can remember, I have heard about an ominous mystery lurking in the shadows, like a lion waiting to pounce, ready to derail people's lives, families, and marriages. It was a mystery to be feared as much as … [Read more...] about Harnessing the Power of a Midlife Crisis
Marriage/Couples
A Dude’s Guide to Valentine’s Day Success
Dear Men, I have previously written about Valentine's Day to your wives and girlfriends to make things easier on you. I encouraged your wives not to be so specific about their expectations for Valentine's Day (and other holidays), and I have written to them to point out how … [Read more...] about A Dude’s Guide to Valentine’s Day Success
A Wife’s Guide to Valentine’s Day Success
Why Valentines Day, Mothers Day and your Birthday became your worst days of the year...and how to fix it. After counseling hundreds of clients over the last ten years, I've picked up more than a few quirky insights into American marriages. One of them is this: nothing brings … [Read more...] about A Wife’s Guide to Valentine’s Day Success
Unhealthy Love: How to Recognize It and Reclaim Your Worth
An open letter from a person who knows in her heart her relationship isn’t healthy: I walked in last night and felt the tension as I entered the room. I immediately wondered if I had done something wrong, but nothing came to mind. Still, you started asking if I’d had too much … [Read more...] about Unhealthy Love: How to Recognize It and Reclaim Your Worth
A New Year, A New Canvas: Crafting a Life with Purpose in 2025
We waited anxiously for this week for months. The time went exactly as expected. Everything was a total mess. Surround-sound baby cries. More food than we normally eat in a month. And lots of laughter, fun, and love as my family and our extended family all gathered for Christmas … [Read more...] about A New Year, A New Canvas: Crafting a Life with Purpose in 2025
Crossroads Professional Counseling Christmas Gift Guide 2024
Holistic Health and Wellness Gifts Time is ticking down for the big day. In case you haven’t heard, it’s the most wonderful time of the year. It’s also the most stressful time of the year for some of us! Self care is more important now than ever. Here is a list of … [Read more...] about Crossroads Professional Counseling Christmas Gift Guide 2024






