You might be surprised to know that there are many people in the Bible who I would describe as a total basket case. We've got David, who can seem manic and dances around in his underwear, and other times seems depressed and wishing for death. Samson has such a bad breakup … [Read more...] about What Are You Doing Here, Elijah? A Bible Story About Burnout and the Nervous System
Anxiety/Depression
This Will Not Be Me
“Mom, you have to eat something.” I have made three things, and she won’t eat any of them. “I need my coffee.” “Ok, but you need to eat something.” I bring her a cup of coffee. She takes one sip and makes a face like she just drank dirt. “It needs sugar.” “Mom, I … [Read more...] about This Will Not Be Me
Turns Out I am a Flight Risk
Listen to the blog: I remember running through a park with my dad chasing after me, mad as a hornet. I think of that now in my counseling training in anxiety and trauma. You’ve heard of fight, flight, or freeze responses. In that instance, I was fleeing. Another … [Read more...] about Turns Out I am a Flight Risk
I’m a Therapist With an Anxiety Disorder – Here’s What Actually Helps
Listen to the blog: This may seem like an unusual confession from a therapist, but most of my regular clients already know this about me: I have an anxiety disorder. I have struggled with anxiety really as far back as elementary school. It started in the way a lot of … [Read more...] about I’m a Therapist With an Anxiety Disorder – Here’s What Actually Helps
Start Today, No Waiting: Making Space in Full Days
I made my first king cake today. It actually came out pretty good. It was an all-of-a-sudden, a “Hey, I think I'm going to make a king cake today.” There was no planning, no leading up to this decision, just something in the moment I decided I wanted to do it. I had never made … [Read more...] about Start Today, No Waiting: Making Space in Full Days
When You’re High-Functioning but Emotionally Exhausted
Why “Holding It Together” Is Costing You More Than You Think I still had my hospital wristband on. If we could be really quiet as we crawled in bed, we wouldn’t wake up our 5 year old son, who would be getting up for school soon, or my brother-in-law, who had just … [Read more...] about When You’re High-Functioning but Emotionally Exhausted
