We can’t change others. We can’t, and we shouldn’t want to. I know—you may be thinking, If you knew so-and-so, you would change your mind about trying to change people. But regardless of whether someone else needs to change or not, it is not our job to do it. Besides, if … [Read more...] about You Can’t Change Other People—Here’s What You *Can* Do
Chasing Success: From Ego to Humility
It’s funny how the things that once helped us—really helped us—can later start to hurt us. I used to think my drive and ambition were just part of who I was. Necessary, even. And for a while, they were. They got me through a lot. But somewhere along the way—probably without me … [Read more...] about Chasing Success: From Ego to Humility
When the Fire Fades: Fighting Spiritual Drift
I remember the moment I realized falling away from Jesus was possible—even for someone madly in love with Him. I was meeting with my small group as a newly born-again follower of Christ. Much wiser, spiritually mature women surrounded me. Each, in turn, shared their version of … [Read more...] about When the Fire Fades: Fighting Spiritual Drift
Re-Kindle The Light of Christ
There are drops of coffee all over my new counter. As I pour, more drops slide to the light surface. Has this pot been leaking all of this time? Maybe our old pitch-dark counters hid the leak. Seeing it makes me want to fix the problem. This is a mess every time we pour. It … [Read more...] about Re-Kindle The Light of Christ
Why Am I so Angry: Understanding and Controlling Anger
I hear words or noise, but I’m no longer processing their meaning. All I can focus on is the feelings rushing through my body. My heart is racing, the rhythm of it pounding louder and louder in my head. Heat builds in my chest, rising to my face. Flushed and tense—I am … [Read more...] about Why Am I so Angry: Understanding and Controlling Anger
Making Space for the People You Care About
How can you expect to have deep, meaningful relationships if you never make space for the people in your life that you care most about? When did you make the shift from hanging out with friends, talking on the phone till all hours of the night with the love of your … [Read more...] about Making Space for the People You Care About
